Let’s admit it, we’ve all watched a little BDSM porn, and often you come across the image of someone (usually a woman), bound and helpless with a wand massager pressed into their genitals. What you see, usually shows them in some state of orgasmic bliss whether they are screaming or shaking or both.
Magic wand massagers are some of the most powerful and popular vibrators available. For those of us that enjoy pure, toe-curling power, these miracle machines deliver pleasure as no other sex toy can. If you’re looking for power in your sex toys, then a wand a massager is the way to go.
These fun toys have serious power and are known for their clitoral stimulation. They are often referred to as the ‘Cadillac of Vibrators’ because the experience is often so intense. The strong vibrational power of a wand will elicit moans that you didn’t even expect to come out of you. Many people that have never experienced an orgasm use a wand, and the result is an intense orgasm.
So, if you are contemplating buying one, let me give you a few ways to use your wand massager and I am sure it will make it the top choice in your toy box!
Wand massagers have knocked the socks off so many people and have left them dreaming about the next moment they can plug in their wand and continue the journey to climax street.
MULTIPLY YOUR ORGASMS
Multiple orgasms are often talked about with the same hushed reverence as unicorns or genie lamps. The difference is that having a few orgasms in a row is possible, whilst unicorns and genies are not real. Multiple orgasms are very real.
For most women, achieving multiple orgasms is a matter of training your body to get past the refractory period (the time post-orgasm) and to be able to continue onto the next orgasm…and the next…and the next.
A body wand vibrator is extremely powerful as it vibrates at such a high level that most women find orgasm comes very quickly. The stimulation is continuous, and without a break, you can push yourself past the refractory period and go for the next orgasm!
Once your first orgasm is achieved and finished, take the vibe off your clitoris for about 30 seconds. Then (and this is the game changer part!) put it back on your clitoris (possibly on a higher vibe setting since it may take a little more effort the second time around). You will be very sensitive but keep it there.
Natural instinct after your first orgasm will be to roll away and not be touched, but don’t do that! Do a small break and then get right back in it. The vibe will take you back to heaven very quickly and from there you will likely have a one or a few more orgasms.
SQUIRTING PLEASURE
For many women, the most sought after orgasmic bliss is the G-Spot orgasm (AKA the squirting orgasm). Typically associated with a powerful stream of liquid (female ejaculate, NOT PEE), the G-Spot orgasm is undoubtedly the most intense orgasm a woman can achieve, and yes it is achievable!
If you have ever watched any videos where women have authentic squirting orgasms you may notice that many of them use a wand massager. Why? The strong vibrations affect the entire vaginal area, and women who are sensitive and have G-Spot orgasms often find that the strong vibrations make squirting much easier to achieve!
It is important to realize that while every woman has a G-spot, not every woman can experience a G-spot orgasm and even fewer can squirt. Some women will never have a G-spot orgasm and a majority of women who can have a G-spot orgasm will not squirt.
So, just keep this in mind and try not to get upset if you can never truly squirt. It’s not to say a wand massager will guarantee you a squirting orgasm, but if you are a woman who can squirt, this sexy toy may be a quicker route for you to achieve!
MANLY MASSAGE
Sometimes the best way to introduce your buzzing buddy to your lover is to show him how good the vibrations feel ON HIM! He can partake of the vibratory pleasures as well. You can run it over his nipples, down under his scrotum, up and down his shaft, on his taint.
Think about how incredible a blow job would be if you added a little ball buzzing into the mix! Men have rarely, if ever, used a vibrator on their shaft – so show him how much fun it can be for HIM and he will be glad to return the favour on you!
Men might not shout about it as much as ladies, but like us, they too enjoy intimate vibrations, so experimenting with the wand can be equally as fulfilling for him. You might want to start with a sexy relaxing muscle massage to get him a little relaxed.
When moving down to his private parts, it is important to take it slowly and to watch how he reacts. Simply slide the toy up and down the length of the shaft of his penis, using plenty of lube.
Start off gentle, and then crank up the vibes when guided to do so. A little lube on the underside of the penis as well will allow you to glide the wand along the length of the shaft, allowing those vibrations to penetrate deeply all over.
Related: Sex Toys: A Guys Guide To Satisfying Your Woman.
BETTER TOGETHER
Couples all over the world are using sex toys to enhance their sexual experience when things get a little dull in the bedroom.
Of course, there is nothing that could replace good old fashioned love making but experimenting with an electronic stimulating device such as a wand vibrator is sure to get the spice needed back into any relationship.
While it is true that a wand vibrator is something great for solo play – it can also be quite pleasing during intercourse! Particularly in positions like doggy style or any missionary where there is room to place the massager.
The high vibrations directed on the clitoris will provide intense stimulation during intercourse AND the strength of the vibrations is sure to give your partner a thrill as well. Just be careful, massaging on the balls is a sensation that some men may find unpleasant.
SUCH A TEASE
Edging, or orgasm control is the practice of bringing yourself (or your partner) to the cusp of orgasm and then easing up on stimulation to keep them aroused.
It is said to make your eventual orgasm much more intense, and at the very least this practice helps you be much more in touch with your body’s response to pleasure and also lets you extend your partnered play.
Edging can also be used as a part of kinky play, wherein one partner restrains their submissive partner and uses a powerful vibrator, such a wand massager to ‘torture’ them with pleasure by bringing them close to climax but not letting them orgasm – or alternatively, ‘forcing’ them to orgasm.
Remember your safe words!
TIE ‘EM UP
It the Fifty Shades franchise did anything for us, it inspired most of us. Wands are ideal for integrating with a little gentle rope bondage. A rope harness attaching the wand massager to you or your partner’s genitals.
Once you learn a few basic knots and ties, rope bondage is not as complicated as you might fear. Because the harness and massager combination is so popular, it’s not difficult to find techniques to teach yourself how to do it.
Of course, if you’d like to keep it simple, a little bondage tape will also do the job. The point is to use something that keeps the massager in place.
Once you turn the wand massager on, there’s no getting away from those strong rumbles and buzzes. Either you or your partner will be forced (consensually) to withstand the force of the stimulation. Uncontrollable pleasure and orgasms will soon follow.
IN CONCLUSION
So, if any of these ideas turn you on even just a little, do yourself a favour, get a wand massager and use it to pleasure yourself or your partner in a consensual, kinky and fun way.
Also, tell us how you like to use your Wand Massager? Have you got any awesome tips on how to get the best out of your toy? Drop us a comment below and share your ideas with us.
Until Next Time….
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